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When she approached a high profile and popular stylist (PS), he ignored her. Of course, this reaction was a blow to BQ because PS was one of those who helped prepare her for one of the significant events in her life, which eventually ended in failure later on. Moreover, PS is often the top choice in photoshoots and other fashion events, where she also participates. PS is highly sought after by celebrities and non-celebrities who can afford his rates.
Out of disgust, BQ approached a group of girls and expressed her disappointment. She said something like, “Ano ba naman ‘tong mga ito, di makamove on sa issue.”
Perhaps, BQ forgot that her twitter messages alienated and offended the LGBT community. Some "bekis" found her messages amiss and insensitive because "bekis" were behind some of her major achievements. Behind every successful beauty queen is a "beki". Moreover, "bekis" form the support system and spearhead the world of her career. As for moving on, perhaps BQ thought her one-liner of an apology was enough to appease those she had hurt. Sadly, it was not.
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Kikiam sa Cubao! Ang hindi kagandahan na beauty queen. Sigh.
ReplyDeleteLie from the devil!
ReplyDelete:))
ah, okay. the tsunami has nothing to do with the BI. hehehehe
ReplyDeleteteh. porke may alon tsunami na agad?
DeleteThis is a lie from the devil! Hahaha!
ReplyDeleteI'm with BQ on this one. whatever happened to 'anyone has his/her opinion'? What do these gays expect, that everyone should agree with them? Kaya nga opinion eh. sino ngayon ang nagiging intolerant?
ReplyDeleteAgree! Hirap kasi sa ibang tao di tumatanggap ng opinyon ng iba. Bkit? Kelan ba nging mali ang opinyon?
DeleteAgree. I am Not against gays... but di ko maintindihan why dapat pagdating sa kanila extra sensitive ang mga tao. Pano nga naman magiging intolerant yung iba Kung ang gusto is special treatment. Wag sana ganun di ba. The more you ask for special treatment lalong di magiging normal ang tingin ng iba sa kanila. Hayst...live and let live...
DeleteWhat she said was NOT an opinion. It was an indirect insult to the LGBT. She is a public figure that is why she has to be extra careful with her words.
DeleteAgree!
DeleteAnonymousMay 19, 2012 5:51 AM, what special treatment are you talking about? Nobody is asking for a special treatment, LGBT is asking for equal rights, the right to be respected, and a life free of mockery. Ditto with AnonymousMay 19, 2012 6:20 AM, what se said was not an opinion. It is a scathing generalization that is hurtful to the LGBT community...
Delete" Tandaan: Kapag walang bading, boring. - Vice Ganda- ".....No disrespect to the overly sensitive gay community, but this is one of the most stupid things I've ever read.
Deleteas usual, opinyon din na bugbugin ang mga bading kase bading sila? pakisaloob nga na pagnagbigay ka ng opinyon, handa ka dapat tumanggap ng opinyon ng ibang tao. eh, kung puro na lang, "eh opinyon ko eh" ang mentalidad, saan na tayo tutungo?
Delete@8:56 - talaga? sige, challenge kita na wag magpatronize ng kahit na anong bagay o palabas na walang beki na involved.
borderline bullying na ginagawa ng ibang influential gays. instead na magbacklash sa lahat ng komokontra sa kanila, dapat gumawa sila ng hakbang o movement to educate the rest of humanity, at hindi lang sa lahat ng straight pati din sa kapwa nila. kaya sila nababastos lahat kasi may iba sa kanila na bastos din naman talaga umasta.
Deleteand dapat matuto din silang rumespeto sa kasarian nila. deserving ba ng respeto ang mga gays na nagpapakita talaga ng dibdib during gay contests? just to show to the world and the gays around that they have breasts?? or wear the skimpiest of clothing. if they want to pass like a woman, they should behave as one. I know may mga babae ding b*tch, but is that what gays want if they are women?
and some gays are loud. loud in buses, streets, restos specially pag groupo. aminin nyo mga bekis may mga ganyang klase na beki. nagpapapansin talaga pag naglalakad sa daan feeling ramp model.
Those who speak/fight for gay equality are the best ones of the LGBT group. they are respectable, earn decent living and are discreet in their affairs and there are some in the LGBT group who are loud, obnoxious and outright KSP. Unfortunately, mas napapansin ang mga pasaway kaysa sa mga matino.
My My My Arent U In A Judgemental Mood Today?! And I Assume That The Throngs Of Girls And Women Chatting Up A Storm In Malls Have Ur Tolerance,ei? U are blatantly attacking these gay people based on their looks,suggesting that the straight looking gays are better than the girly ones...well let me tell u somethin,sir...i am girly looking and as i type my reply on my iphone 4s on the way to my gym in glorietta while being driven in my starex van,I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT U WILL NEVER HAVE SUCH A LIFE BECOZ OF SUCH BIGOTRY!!!
DeleteIt's not a question of opinion. It's BQ being hypocritical. If she thinks gays are an abomination then why does she continue to associate with them? Is she trying to save them? Change them? If she thinks gays are disgusting then she should have nothing to do with them. As it is, she's still hanging around them. What's that all about?
DeleteMaybe she just wants a free dress
Truth hurts kaya nagrereact ang mga beki. Growing social acceptability of it doesn't make it right. Besides it was based on the bible, the word of truth.
Deletei love bekis.oa man sila magreact o hindi.bsta tao sila.kung hnd pa nila matanggap apology ni ms q.e kanila na un.gsto naman ksi ni ms q agadagad?time heals.give these bekis time na makagetover s 'opinion' nya.wag nyo na warlahin si ms. q, bekis.wag na kyo magstoop down sa level nya.ang wrinkles.haha.hayaan na xa maging bitter.:)
DeleteJust because everyone's entitled to an opinion doesn't mean they can say what they want (no matter how cruel, racist, bigoted, controversial) and nobody can touch them.
DeleteAnd bekis are people, too. If they don't like BQ based on her recent words and actions and choose not to associate with her, that's their choice.
If, for example, a friend of mine says publicly that she thinks people who leave the Philippines in search of greener pastures are cowards for not staying in the Phils. and are failing in their duties as children by not staying home to take care of their parents, does that mean I have no right to be offended? If I eventually decide that I don't really have room in my life for people who disagree with my lifestyle, does that make me "intolerant" to her opinions?
The bekis weren't mad because she HAD an opinion. They were mad because she publicly announced that their lifestyle was a lie from the devil, and acted so high-and-mighty and holier-than-thou about it.
Miss U
ReplyDeletekaka watch ko lang nito sa bandila... parang wala lang...
ReplyDeletesi Miriam Kembot ba itey? :D
ReplyDeletea lie from d devil - nhadz
ReplyDeleteyan kasi ang napapala ng mga walang UTANG NA LOOB..ryt sen.MIRRIAM?
ReplyDeleteung nadapa
ReplyDeleteYan ang napapala ng mga masyadong nagmamalinis at mapanglait ng kapwa. I read a tweet of a top supermode that she felt sad that nobody wanted to talk to her. Sana di maapektuhan ang box office results ng sequel ng isang well loved comedy film about twin sister na polar opposites because this beauty queen is still part of the cast
ReplyDeleteKatukayo ni madam senador ba itetch? ayan kc taklesa lng ang peg!
ReplyDeleteIf you give your opinion on something at may nasaktan TAKLESA na agad?!.. lahat pala ng tao na against sa third sex eh mga taklesa...bakit ba mga super sensitive ang mga beki's? sana maintindihan nila na hindi lahat ng tao eh open-minded sa kanila.
DeleteAnonymous 7:25 AM, nabasa mo ba yung mga pinagsasasabi nya at mga bible verse quotes nya? kung hindi taklesa ang tawag dun ewan ko na lang....
DeleteDoes saying bible verses mean " taklesa na"?oh my. U should respect the bible. If Bekis hurt of the bible verses then means ur doing something wrong.
DeleteTsktsk. Yung pagkakatalisod nya kasi this time, hindi nakakaproud. Nakakaoffend!
ReplyDeleteSame beauty queen whose ex-husband left her for a transvestite
ReplyDeleteOuch! Baka ganon na lang sha ka-hurt?
Deletehe didn't LEAVE her for a transvestite, he just had a short fling with him/her, and BQ couldn't accept it, siguro kasi being a beauty title holder tapos your husband would do such a thing, all the more with a ladyboy!
DeleteAnonymousMay 19, 2012 8:44 AM » "... BQ couldn't accept it, siguro kasi being a beauty title holder tapos your husband would do such a thing, all the more with a ladyboy!"
Delete- so ang sinasabi mo, she left the hubby kasi insecure si BQ and you're insinuating na insecure si BQ dahil, BQ nga siya pero kinaliwa naman... sa trans pa ?
di ba pwedeng she couldn't accept it because of the sheer BETRAYAL of his act ? Tsk tsk.
1st runner up! ay sori, nadulas ako..
ReplyDeleteahhh... si "lie from the devil".
ReplyDeleteSobrang giveaway ng BI na 'to pero wiz ko knowsline kung sinetch si PS.
ReplyDeleteBQ is none other than 1st runner up floor diver.
MIRIAM DEFENSOR?? HAHAHAHA!
ReplyDeleteBQ - di katulad nung nauna mong pagkakatalisod, di ka agad makakabangon dito sa away sa mga beki! Alam mo namang sila ang pinakamalaking fan base ng mga beauty pageants!
ReplyDeletePS - have no clue! Sino itey?
wawa naman c Ms. Dictionary... may point din naman xa.. move on na sana... same event din ba ito nung nagbigay sya ng advice kay boxer M??? :D
ReplyDelete“Ano ba naman ‘tong mga ito, di makamove on sa issue.” - hahaha loves eeett!! :)) witty tlga c ms.Universe tama naman siya diba sana lang yung mga beki ay malawak ang pang-unawa na opinion lng nman un at sna ay walang personalan.. So sana po mga beki lawakan nyo na po ang inyong pangunawa :)) luv u all bekis!
ReplyDeletemasyadong over na yong mga beki kc binibigyan pansin. pero kapag cla naman yong makapanglait sa ibang tao parang okey lang sa kanila..
DeleteAgree. Mga beki numero uno manlait ng kapwa!!! A good example Very Giddy!
Deletepwedeng mag like? ahehe
DeleteI'm sorry pero anong "witty" sa statement na yun?
DeleteLIE FRM THE DEVIL
ReplyDeleteang sumemplang at si rahwho ba to?
ReplyDeletenasa democracy tayo dba so opinion nya yun pero minsan kelangan ng preno for those people who helped and mentored her i think her statement has hurt them... siguro she needs to be sincere sa apology nya kasi i saw her on tv parang sorry but tonong unapologetic. in your case Miss Q it's not what you're saying but how you say it.
ReplyDeletems universe 1st runner up 1999
ReplyDelete*~*
Di naman niya sinasawala yung mga nagawa sakanya ng mga "beki", ang sakanya lang, yung paniniwala nya. Lahat naman tayo may paniniwala. So its up to others kung ano paniniwala nila, kung ang paniniwala nila na hindi kasalan ang pagiging LGBT,then so be it. Kung matibay paniniwala mo, then why be offended?
ReplyDeletecorrect..
Deletextra challenge...~P
ReplyDeleteNadulas lang daw si BQ just like nung nag compete cya sa kalawakan. :)
ReplyDeleteLove your choice of words. MQ! PS is RG so hunky?!
ReplyDeleteAko ang 1st... Runner up na nag comment?!
ReplyDeleteLie from the devil again.
ReplyDeleteShe has problems. :l
lie froM d deMonyo
ReplyDeleteahhh siya yung falling star apple sa pageant dati...
ReplyDeleteMaraming Question
ReplyDeletedulasin itong gurlash na itey..
hahah ang secretary ni KIMMY DORA !! hahaha
ReplyDeleteshe's a lie from the devil..
ReplyDeleteWala nan iba kundi ang beaty queen na guest sa show ni tito boy.
ReplyDeletealam ko kung bakit sensitive masyado ang mga gays like me sa sinabi ni MQ...coz deep in our hearts we know that our lifestyle is immoral in god's eyes. we know it's a sin, but we just can't help it. helloooo, ang sarap kayang mag-shamcey supsup.
ReplyDeleteLol that's the point. Knows naman kasi ng lgbt na sin ang ginagawa nila. Parang pms lang knows naman na sin din un pero madami ang gumagawa. They cant help it
Deletecorrected by! plangak!
Deletegalit lang cla in short kc natumbok ni mirriam ang kasalanan nila heheh
DeleteMismo.
DeleteUr gender in reality is Male pero you act as a female.
Anong tawag dun, truth or lie?
Kaya yun ang point ni BQ,it is a "lie from the devil".Iba ang pamumuhay at kilos mo sa kung ano ang totoong pagkaka-create sayo.
Di akalain ng gay community kasi na may isang sikat na celebrity na magpapahayag ng truth ng dahilan ng pagiging gay nila. Iniinject ng evil spirit sa mind nila na maging gay sila. Yun ang truth.ang basis ni BQ ay Bible.ang LGBT ano ang basis nila sa pag"pili" nila sa pinipilit nilang gender sana nila?sino/ano ang source nila?masakit talaga tanggapin ang truth. Pero sabi nga ni BQ dba,Jesus loves everyone and he died for our sins.kung magdedecide lang ang isang LGBT na gsto nya magbago Jesus can accept him/her with open arms and I think even BQ can help!
korek, natumbok nga ni MQ, so sana maging sensitive din sya na di ganon kadali na tanggapin at lunukin na lang ng mga beki yung mga sinabi-sabi nya tapos ngayon e ini-expect nyang close na sila ulit? kelan pa naging ganyan kadali makalimot sa sama ng loob ang mga pilipino?
DeleteJust because society says it's wrong, it's wrong? Eto yung mali satin e. masyado tayong dependent sa sasabihin ng ibang tao, sa culture. Can we just use some logic? Beauty queen chose to say her 'opinion' in public, which hurt most gays in the community. What do you expect them to do? Agree with her? Beauty queen drew the line and crossed it. Now face the consequence and let's see if you can get over it!
DeleteThe beauty queen, MQ.
ReplyDeleteA Bicolana..from Bacacay Albay.MQ..just watched her interview in Bandila..she was so proud claiming that there is no issue between her and her 'beki' friends..she even said that 'mas madami pa nga nkikiclose skn ngaun'..hayy i advice my fellow bicolana to be sensitive enough..shes a BEauty Icon so she should be a good role model..
ReplyDeleteButi nga. She's a lie from the devil!. Impokrita!!
ReplyDeleteshe's a lie from the devil!
ReplyDeleteHell hath no fury like a pa-woman scorned...kahit pa accdg to BQ gawa daw sila ng demonyo...haay, hindi na siya yammy...
ReplyDeletefirst name = kapangalan ng ingliserang senadora.
ReplyDeleteLast name= malapit sa quiapo+kalabaw
:)
Nakakapang-init ng dugo ang beauty queen na yan!
ReplyDeleteM.Q.
ReplyDeleteNakita ko to sa Bandila, just now.. parang Orocan Moment ang picturan ever.. a lie from the devil ito.
Nadulas ba itey?
ReplyDeletesya si ati nating walang bahid dungis!lie from the devil!
ReplyDeleteSi Ms. Tapilok ba itey ?!?
ReplyDeletethe fallen miss u 1st runner up?
ReplyDeleteBQ - meriam dictionary
ReplyDeletePS - rajo paminta
:)
ay eto ang ms U 1st runner up 1999 na nadapa...ayan nadapa na naman sya sa pagbatikos sa mga beki...kabog tuloy ang lola ngayon nagalit ang mga beki hala!
ReplyDelete*kpz*
mere yum kikiam bow! :))
ReplyDeleteeasy...Maligalig Queen
ReplyDeleteMQ
ReplyDeleteSabi nya mas dumami daw friends nya. Kakapakita lang ng interview nya sa watawat.
Give away na ' to eh. Hehe.
ReplyDeleteah yung nasubasob sa pageant....
ReplyDeleteEngot pala siya e
ReplyDeleteBQ as in Miriam Defensor Santiago? :)
ReplyDeletePS as Raja Humabon?
former beauty queen who's now a born-again Christian. at least she's brave enough to speak her mind. but I don't think she means any harm. so let's all just move on!!!
ReplyDeleteAgree!
DeleteI don't give a shit if she is a born-again Satan. There is too much religion and politics in this stupid country. They should focus on the many problems of this country instead.
DeleteIsa ka ba sa mga na hurt FP?
ReplyDeleteay i just saw this in bandila :)
ReplyDeletekapangalan ni senator s. he he.
ReplyDelete- nbkv
Ang hirap naman kasi talaga maka-move on sa comment nya. She generalized the LGBT community. Sad lang for her, how can she get out of this mess?
ReplyDeleteso easy! BQ is the thomasian binibining pilipinas who almost snatched our 3RD MU crown. i'm wondering who BS is.
ReplyDeleteKatukayo ni Senator. 1st runner up
ReplyDeleteJoyzee
alam na alam na to!! diborsyadang beauty queen na walang anak. infairness, danda ng face...
ReplyDeletewala ng ibang BQ, si kontrobersyal M na eto.
ReplyDeleteah....getching ko to FP, si 1st runner up ms. u 'to.
ReplyDeleteka namesung ni sen. santiago! :)))
ReplyDeletenadapa ata ako.. :)
ReplyDeleteHahahaha. This is so obvious! Title pa lang e!
ReplyDeleteWell she kinda deserved it.
Sabi nya kanina sa TV patrol mas naging close daw nya ang mga bekis! Chozzz lan pala!
ReplyDeleteso easyyy...
ReplyDeleteYung nadapa at nakabawi na BQ sa Universe to!!
ReplyDeleteAh si Lie from the Devil to.
ReplyDeleteLie from the devil! Pak! Yun na!
ReplyDeleteHer initials are in the title. She posted a photo with a renowned fashiondesigner at the said party and they looked happy naman. I had two personal encounters with BQ and she was very gracious and pleasant. One time i was telling her about my problems and she was very kind to give me good advices. She quoted verses from the Bible. I appreciate her a lot. I know a lot of our friends got offended of her remarks but she was just citing her beliefs and her opinion and it's her right to share biblical principles. I will never forget when she made us proud when she won her title :)
ReplyDeleteSana maraming ganito na open-minded!
DeleteThank you. Jesus healed BQ's heart. The truth will set us free :) Nabibilib ako how others express their opinion. And I respect them talaga. Fun to be with the bekis. :)
DeleteFP, perstaym walang ganito ang BI mo.
ReplyDelete"Can you identify who SM is? Please abide by the RULES in writing comments if you want me to post them. Initials and comments that are too explicit will not be accepted."
Kasi, too obvious ang sagot. Anyway, how sensitive can she get, hindi kaya ng Contratubex ang sugat/peklat ng ginawa nya. hehehe!
Philippine showbiz is all run and dominated by gays, no wonder why Movies and TV shows suck. Puro kabaklaan.
ReplyDeleteEasy, turn your TV off, go offline, and go back to the cave where you came from..then that would be your world free of gays.
DeleteKaya naman nagpunta ka na lang sa computer mo at tumambay sa website na punumpuno ng tsismaks at gay lingo? Nosebleed ako sa level ng irony mo, teh. Wagas!
DeleteSi "homosexuality is a lie from the devil" ito.
ReplyDeleteKikiam!
ReplyDeleteSya ba yung kinasal sa bora dti?
ReplyDeleteEto ba si Miss "dulas" BQ in the Universe history? :P
ReplyDeleteBQ= natalo ng isang Black beauty sa Miss Universe
ReplyDeletePS= clueless.....
this is the beauty queen who used to be the co-host of Paolo, recently divorced her hubby. BQ from Region V (Bicol).
ReplyDeleteM...a. Q....a.
ReplyDeleteMeer yum k yum vow, thats it, she ahould rub elbows with share on because both have downslopped carrer, they should talk to each other and comfort each other, and perhaps sought consult to a specialist, there is nothing wrong with that, since specialists are of great help and they can give some meds, and hire a good PR and yes, a sensible adviser, or better yet read FB and take the comments in a positive way, ika nga ni Obama, change we can,
ReplyDeleteMyopic Quips.
ReplyDelete“Men trip not on mountains, they trip on molehills”
--Chinese Proverbs quotes
It's obvious who BQ is but I wonder if PS is the one who is rumored to have a thing with the president before? :P
ReplyDeleteAludra ikaw ba yan?
ReplyDeleteAludra ikaw ba yan?
ReplyDeletePS is Inosenteng Sosyal (I might be wrong)
ReplyDeleteBQ is the lie from the devil
it is a lie from the devil. yun na!
ReplyDeleteMs. U :))
ReplyDeleteif miss universe would have been pregnant during her reign, should she be allowed to continue as miss universe?
ReplyDeleteMalelerQui ako sa beauty queen na ito eh...
ReplyDeleteFeeling smart ksi tong murat na to . . .hmp iniwan nmn ng asawa . . .asawang eithet beki din o sa beki sumama
ReplyDeleteMariang taga Quiapo. Yun na
ReplyDeleteBQ - Binibining Pilipinas World 1999
ReplyDeletelie from the devil.. un na!
ReplyDeleteEveryone is entitled to their own opinion, no matter how bigoted and narrow-minded it may be. Unfortunately for her, she had chosen to condemn a group of individuals who are a stapled part of the career she chose. I don't think she'd go anywhere without the gays. I understand how she wanted to 'speak her mind' but did she really HAVE to? And on a TV show and Twitter, no less? Where thousands of gay men and women watched and followed her as a sign of their support for her throughout the years? One word. INSENSITIVE.
ReplyDeleteImagine what would happen if she did this while she was vying for her old title!!!
stapled talaga? sobrang sakit naman nun
DeleteMaria Quiapo c BQ..sino si PS?
ReplyDeletealam na! eto yung na bi ditong bq na nadulas sa bb kalawakan. wawa naman sya kasi naman rumatsada sa twitter di na inisip ang repercussions ng mga sasabihin nya
ReplyDeleteayan kasi... kaw ba naman banatan ng ganun hindi ma-ooffend? Mainit pa ang issue. Madaling magpatawad pero hindi mabilis makalimot. Next time ingat ingat kasi sa mga banat ineng!
ReplyDeleteM! Feeling ko ibubulgar na naman ito ni krizzy sa twitter! hahaha! kalerqui!
ReplyDeletesi M toh!
ReplyDeletem
ReplyDeleteMMMMM
ReplyDeleteMove on? Parang ganon lang kababaw ung issue 'teh?
ReplyDeleteoo mababaw lang ang issue. mabigat lang kasi people do not have the ability to forgive. hindi tumigil ang mundo when BQ said her piece. respect each other's opinion. life is too short to be bitter about the smallest of issues. pag gising nyo bukas, bakla, tomboy o ordinaryong lalaki o babae man - each one will continue to work to live, to be challenged to survive. kaya let's just be happy for the person right next to us.
DeleteBaka taga Sydney, Australia si PS?
ReplyDelete"When I fell on the stage ...I believe I stood up for the rest of the women who have fallen whether on or off the stage." - M '99
ReplyDeleteMQ!!! - double dice
ReplyDeleteM! Ms. Universe 1st runner up
ReplyDeleteMs. Q is that you? Talagang di na naka move on ang mga bekis.
ReplyDeleteEasy! BQ = M.
ReplyDeleteSi Ms. Quim... ex husband Italian and first runner up Ms. U.
ReplyDeleteM as in Manolo Quezon?
ReplyDeleteMiss Q
ReplyDeleteI watched her interview last night on a news program. She is claiming that she gained more gay friends after the incident about tweeting. Now she made a comment that " Ako nakapag-move on, ewan ko lang sila!" Grabe, umakyat yata lahat ng dugo ko sa ulo ko. She doesnt deserve the gay community's forgiveness. She's too arrogant. Grabe kayabangan! Yan ba ang nagbabasa at naniniwala sa teachings ni God? Im not gay, pero napainit nya talaga ulo ko. Kaya siguro iniwan ng asawa nya yan sa pagiging mayabang nya. Kala mo kung sino sya. Hoy M! Di ka kagandahan. Kung gano ako ka proud sayo after the Ms. Universe Pageant, sinusuka na kita ngayon. Arrogante ka.
ReplyDeletePunung-puno ng galit? Ang puso mo teh... c",)
Deletemahirap pag pre-menopausal stage mga teh. respect lang ang kailangan.
DeleteIf I were BQ who has gay friends who have helped her and whom she loves, I would have been more tactful in my pronouncements. If you love and care for people, you wouldn't want them hurt, right? How can you equate the word "devil" to your dear friends? She could have been more sensitive, bec whether she likes it or not, she is surrounded by them in her industry. And calling them devil certainly has big repercussions.
ReplyDeletei think the wrong thing on her part was actually posting her opinions in twitter--out for everyone to see...i mean, again, she's a celebrity so of course lots of people can read her posts, and as a public figure, she can be subject to scrutiny...i think the wound is still open, so she shouldn't be chummy with them right now...just respect that the LGBT community got hurt, and give them time to heal...i think mq is still hurting from her own personal experience which led to her "damaging posts"..but then again, that's no excuse to generalize and alienate a certain sector of society...i guess for both parties: just give each other time for now...
ReplyDeletekelan naging tama sa bible ang pagiging gay? Wake up guys! Magpakalalaki kayo,walang ipinanganak na bading at t0mboy. Sa envir0nment nyo nakuha yan.
ReplyDeleteAndami mong alam! Ikaw na!
DeleteKasi naman, lesson learned...next time, do not touch the homosexuality subject because it is something that is very sensitive. Porque ayaw nya lang sumali ang mga transgenders sa Miss U, "lie from the devil" na raw ang kabaklaan. Jusme, kaming mga beki ang nasa likod ng lahat ng art fields - showbiz, fashion, movies, TV, print, etc.
ReplyDeleteSi RE ang gumawa ng wedding gown nya noon, so baka siya ang nasa BI, although si FP raw ang close nya.
Hay naku, this time, "nadapa" ang lola nyo, pero sumubsob ang mukha dahil inokray ang mga jokla.
Ay may bigot dito sa thread. Parang gusto kong tawagan ang buong LGBT community...
ReplyDeletemaraming people di alam meaning ng "bigot." akala nila freedom of expression is saying what they want without regard for other people.
DeleteTUMPAK! Kaya kahit sabihin pa nilang nasa MODERN AGE na tayo at tanggap na ng kultura natin ito, hindi pa rin maaalis ng iba especially yung buo ang faith kay GOD na nakasaad sa scriptures na DALAWANG GENDER lang ang ginawa ng DYOS tapos gamitin nyo pa DIYOS sasabihin nyo iba pananampalataya nyo and who are we to judge? Nakasaad din sa Bibliya na pag alam mo ang tama sabihin mo sa kapwa mo pag ayaw pa nyang sumunod saka ka bumitiw. At least ginawa mo na ang part mo kasi bawat tao may responsibilidad sa kapwa nya. Hayyy pilit nyong tinatama ang mali.
ReplyDeletebut you should know your boundaries because sometimes speaking up your mind will do harm than good, what happened with her she's spreading hate than good.
DeleteIs it just me, or is it the truth - that those who continue to dislike Miss Tapilok are bekis, and those who defend her are girlaloos.
ReplyDeletePwede ba, mga girlaloos, isaksak nyo sa isip nyo yan, na kaming mga beki ay pinanganak sa mundong ito na walang kontrol kung kami'y magiging beki or not.
Kesehodang genetic, environmental or whatever, ang mga beking gaya ko ay tao rin. Pwede ba, igalang nyo rin kami noh.
respect one another. yan lang naman ang dapat.
DeleteOFF-topic lang. Bago lang akong reader dito sa Fashion pulis kaya nag baback read ako ng mga lumang BI. napansin ko lang bakit lahat ng mga articles na related kay DJ MO nde na available? Curious lang, sana sagutin ako ni FP. thanks! and happy reading to all.
ReplyDeletemag-move on ka na rin gurl...
DeleteBQ is an i---t...she forgot that she's in an industry that is full of beki...everywhere you go there is a beki...She should say "bye bye" to her career. Besides she should talk to her manager to help her deal with the much deserving backlash... Am not a beki by the way...
ReplyDeleteMove on na mga Beki at Lesbiana. Opinion nya yun kaya respituhin sana. Yun nga lang sana inisip muna nya mga sinabe bago sya ng tweet or nagsalita. But since andyan na yan I think the best way is for both parties to give this issue a rest. Tama na ok move on ng lahat. On my opinion this kind of issue hindi na dapat pinapalaki pa. It's enough that other people respect each other when it comes to their sexual preferences. Sana din ilagay sa lugar yung mga pinaglalaban at wag naman sobra. Come to think of it here in our country more than half of the population are catholics. Respect each other nalang sana.
ReplyDeleteNowhere in the Bible does it state that homosexuality is OK. What BQ tweeted took a lot of courage to say especially in this time. I am not against the LGBT but that does not mean I condone their lifestyle.
ReplyDeleteAgree. I'm also not against LGBT.pero kung mabbgyan ng pagkakataon,gusto ko makatulong for them to regain who God created them to be. I'm not to condemn and judge them. Saying the truths of the Bible is not judging or condemning kasi bible nga ang basis eh.pag nagjudge or condemn you don't have basis whatsoever.
Deleteexcuse me Anon 9:04, that attitude is exactly what got her in trouble. ang feeling mo naman - yang righteous at messianic complex ang nakakainis sa mga so-called religious chuva.
Deleteeh, kung sincere ka, go and try to reach out to them. bakit ka pa maghihintay kung bibigyan ka ng pagkakataon?
the least you people can do, instead of preaching this and that, why won't you pray for them?
@ AnonymousMay 19, 2012 9:04 AM
DeleteAgree. I'm also not against LGBT.pero kung mabbgyan ng pagkakataon,gusto ko makatulong for them to regain who God created them to be. I'm not to condemn and judge them.
Teh, you just judged them. You just said you want to help them regain who God created them to be. Your statement assumes their current existence, that is a gay or lesbian, is not natural or what God created them to be. Shempre feeling mo mabait ka pa and helpful, but you have passed judgement on them na. This type of unexamined bias is what the LGBT community is fighting against. Your statement is also a perfect example of what is holier than thou hehe
Meh! She's not a likable personality to begin with. The hating began even before her "lie from the devil" statement. If she's Melanie or Maria Isabel Lopez, everyone would have given her a pass and moved on.
ReplyDeleteHahaha! Correct!
Deletedapat siguro palitan na ni Beyonce ang kanta nya na Who Run The World (Girls) to Who Run The World (Gays)!
ReplyDeleteAng sabi ko nga, "P*ss off the gays once, and you'll be doomed forever".. Hindi na fight for equality ang sinusulong nila.. borderline bullying na. Gusto ng LGBT respeto but they can't even respect those who oppose them.
Nakakatakot na talaga ang mundo ngayon. Pati Bible sinasabi nila na "Outdated" na. Napaka-blasphemic.
To those who still believe in the relevance of the Bible in today's setting, quite na lang mga kapatid. hehe Save Our Own Souls na lang. Unless and until we can follow every single rule in the bible (eg. not eating pork, crabs, shrimp), let's not shove to other people's throat what we have read/learned from the Bible.
Tama!
DeleteThe LGBT community wants respect - coming from actions and words. The world will be a better place if we respected each other.
ReplyDeletehey mga bakla and LGBT2X, must you condemn that person kung ayaw sa inyo? respetuhin nyo naman kong ano ang perception ng isang tao sa inyo wag kaung parang mga dictator na dapat nyo kaming i.control kong ano dapat ang pgtingin nmn sa inyo.
ReplyDeleteM, aminin mo nang hindi ganon kadali sa ating mga pilipino na makalimot sa sama ng loob na binigay ng iba kaya wag ka agad-agad magsabi na di agad maka-move on ang mga tao sa mga pinagsasasabi mo. straight ako pero naiintindihan ko ang nararamdaman ng mga taong na-offend mo sa mga pinagsasasabi mo kelan lang. be sensitive enough para madali silang makalimot, huwag mo nang dagdagan pa at lalo ka lang nakakairita.
ReplyDeleteeasy breezy...former BQ who once lived in HK
ReplyDeleteeasy breezy she once lived in HK with her former husband
ReplyDeleteI'm not gay but I believe Myopic Queen deserves the backlash. She was not merely expressing her opinion, she just negated and dismissed any and all that is good from being a member of the LGBT community. She just called their existence, values, beliefs - everything as nothing but a lie from the devil. True gays can be bullies but most, while loud, use self deprecating jokes. She may not agree with their sexual preference but being gay, I believe, goes beyond sexual preference. Her being Christian does not make her a better person than a gay person. I always believed that this whole "my religion or my personal relationship with Christ makes me a better person than others" as medieval, it is but a manifestation of the white man's burden in the context of cultural relativism. What she did went beyond name calling, bullying or expressing an opinion. If I were gay I wouldn't move on too, I would set her in her place. Besides, it appears that Myopic Queen IS the one who needs to move on. So a transvestite was more appealing and attractive than her. Big deal. Just because she was a beauty queen did she really believe she was the queen of beauty? Tsk tsk. Move on Myopic Queen.
ReplyDeleteI like gays, pero no offense sa knila, mejo sensitive nga sila pagdating sa equal rights. E kasi naman mga teh, gusto nio nmn matanggap kayo agad ng lipunan. E helow? buti kung pare-pareho ng kaisipan ang lahat ng tao sa bansa at sa buong mundo. Lawakan nmn nag pag-iisip.
ReplyDeletemea culpa mga bekis.masydado kayong sensitive. di lang kayo ang tao.
ReplyDeleteShe had it coming. Pasalamat sya, di sya-na-claudine nung gabing yun.
ReplyDeleteNEUTRAL lang ako... I believe na opinion lang ni MQ yun. We're all entitled to our own opinion. Bilang conservative sia and ano magagawa natin? Against naman talaga sa doctrines ng catholic yan. . . (we cannot change that.
ReplyDeleteI feel for LGBT, na-hurt sila. Oo, para sa church sin yun, pero WE DON'T HAVE TO RUB IT IN THEIR FACES. Tayong mga girls, we owe it to them kaya magaganda tayo.
Sana lang both parties should move on na. Another article like this will just worsen the situation. Hayaan nalang natin mamatay ang issue and let the wounds heal in time.
"Move on"... personally, i think she's the one who hasn't moved on.
ReplyDeleteHer twitter posts are still a bit defensive if you ask me. Maybe she should acknowledge her guilt. I think this is just all in her head. She's so burdened by guilt, kaya kung anu anong negativity na nangyayari sa kanya.
Things will not change for her until she really understands the true value of forgiveness.
Sabi nga ni newton,"to every action, there is always an equal and opposite reaction." yes, she's entitled to her own opinion, but everyone else is entitled to react in any way they want. I may agree with her religous views, but not with her obvious disgust/disappointment with how others react. When we speak our minds, we should also prepare ourselves for the consequences.
ReplyDeleteWhat I don't understand is if she despise homosexuality, then why would she want to "hang-out" with the very group she calls a lie from the devil. Isn't that act a very expression of a LIE as well. It's bigotry.
ReplyDeleteShe is entitled to her opinion and she stood by it. I commend her for that. But she should give the LGBT the freedom to despise her opinion as well. It's a cause and effect thing.
If you give out opinion on something, especially hurtful one whether true or not, expect people to have opinions on your opinion as well. And it's obvious that in LGBT community's opinion, she is not worth befriending. So she too has to respect that.
The LGBT is moving on by choosing not to have anything to do with her. She should do the same para move on na talaga.
My two cents.
But when I think about it, it's kind of hard nga naman to socialize with someone who has that kind of opinion about something that is part of you. You can't avoid feeling like you've already been judged or an opinion has already been formed about you. Sure, opinions shouldn't be taken personally but when you state them in such a way that BQ did, quite tactless and self-righteous and with the words "lie from the devil," pretty hard not to be, even slightly, offended.
ReplyDeleteThe problem is, people think the "right to your own opinion" means you get a free pass to say ANYTHING you want and nobody can react negatively. So you can say something close-minded, bigoted, racist, cruel, etc. and it's OK, nobody can touch you, cause it's your own opinion!
ReplyDeleteSorry. You're entitled to your own opinion. But if you express it publicly, be prepared for the repercussions. People will disagree with you. I'm Christian and straight, but personally I was turned off and insulted by BQ's holier-than-thou, self righteous attitude.
If I were one of BQ's gay friends and I read her tweet, I would've been even more insulted. Let's put it this way -- if I found out a non-Asian friend of mine thought all Filipinos were stupid, do you think I'd continue hanging out with her? Ano yun, "oh it's just her opinion that Filipinos are stupid, but she's entitled to her opinion so I'll still be her friend!" Ano ako, tanga? So the bekis are entitled to feel the same way. Yes, BQ is entitled to her own opinion. But if that opinion -- and her attitude throughout this entire episode -- is something that infuriates the bekis, then they can't be blamed for not liking her anymore.