Letter From a Reader: Girl from the South in the Different Wavelengths Story Speaks Up

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Dear Fashion Pulis,

First of all, I would like to congratulate your for your achievements. Your ability to whet the ever-growing esurience of your numerous readers, including myself! To tell you frankly, my businessmen friends (100% male, serious, no-nonsense DAW) are your avid readers and fans! So keep up the good work.

I am writing to you because my friends talked about your post last June 27, 2011, entitled Different Wavelengths. Some of my friends told me that they saw my name there, and so I went back to read it and saw this blind item about the actress and the expatriate

I would only like to clarify a few things:

1. You did not mention a name, but you alluded to the “girl from the South,” and while some friends insist that it is me, I don’t think that I am the only girl the expatriate befriended from the South. I do admit that I went out with him, five times to be exact, but everything was platonic. This was why I got bothered by some of the comments that said, “sexually stimulating,” and “could not resist the Latino charms,” etc. So I am not so sure if I am really the girl from the South that you were referring to.

2. I am writing also to defend the actress. I am glad she did not continue her relationship with him, not because I am jealous or anything but because our trysts were mostly professional. I met him in the office when he and his partner were interviewed by my team. Yes, I admit that we did go on a few dates but there was nothing more than that because of the following reasons:

• Ang sama ng ugali niya! I am so sorry, I don’t know how to better express this, but it is very true, HE IS AN ATHEIST. A CHAUVINISTIC ATHEIST! (Lol, sounds like he dumped me, huh.) Anyway, he thinks so highly of himself, and demands for things. 

• He talks about having sex as if we were just going to the grocery, and tells me that I am a dork, that he pities me because I just cannot do it. (I am not saying I am a holy virgin here, but I have to be comfortable and in love with someone before I do it, and not because he demands it from me.) 

• Last week, he tried to meet up with me. So I said yes. And then the next day, I texted him if it was a GO. He did not reply so it was cool, I know he is a busy guy. Then the next day, he was all accusing me that I could not stick to my word, bla bla bla. I told him he didn’t reply. He insisted that he did, and then I said I always respond to everyone, and then ended up blaming the service provider. Anyway, he is a condescending person that is maybe why his many girlfriends left him, if it is true that they really did leave him. 

• Believe me or not, his breath stinks. And he wonders why I couldn’t kiss him. You can ask the actress, he may be intellectually stimulating at first, but that is all there is to it… LOL.

So there, it’s just too bad that his Latino charms did not work on me, because he is too condescending and believes that he did our country a favor when in fact, we did the company he represents a favor.

Thank you so much and more power!!!

PS: The only person I know he had a sexual relationship with is this certain talent from brotherhood network who joined a VJ search. He also goes around telling people that she is a PSYCHO.

Your truly,

Girl from the South