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Dear Fashion Pulis,
I am writing you to share a story and get the opinions/reactions of your readers as well. One Saturday night, my friends and I went to this famous dance club in Malate because we haven't been there for a long time. My friends who were with me are mostly VIPs (famous personalities/loyal clients/friends of the shareholders) of this club so they brought me to the VIP lounge on the second floor.
A couple of drinks later, while my friends were dancing and enjoying the good music, I noticed a familiar looking person looking at me in the lounge. A few minutes later, he walked towards me and introduced himself. He went on asking "Who do you think is the hottest guy that you want to have sex with in this room right now?" I was shocked to hear this from him because I noticed that his partner was just a few meters away. I told him politely that I was just there to enjoy the music and have fun with some good friends. Attempting to change the topic, I pointed to his partner and said, "Isn't he your partner? You are the design duo who owns this store in a mall, right?" He immediately called his partner and introduced me to him. After the brief introduction, the partner went back to his friends. When I was left alone with him again, he asked me, "Are you more of a giver or a receiver? Would you like to join us in bed? I am feeling hot right now." I panicked after hearing his questions and I simply said, "I am sorry but I have to go back to my friends now. It was really nice talking to you."
Call me a hopeless romantic but in my opinion, when a person (guy or girl) is committed to someone, he/she must not enter into casual encounters with others. I just felt weird that he asked me to join him and his partner for a three way. I hope I am not being judgmental and I hope this will not offend your readers. I just need to know what your readers think about having a casual encounter with a couple.
Sincerely,
M.L.
P.S. Parts of the letter were edited by Fashion PULIS to conceal the identities of the characters.
seriously? thats quite normal. youre at a gay club. what do you expect? geesh. at some point in your "couple" life youd end up thinking. adobo everyday??? i want sinigang naman this time. anyway, to each his own. diversity at its finest.
ReplyDeleteToo much libido hahaha to the point that one partner ain't enough haha!
ReplyDeleteclues pls!
ReplyDeleteThank you dear reader. You know who you are. Mwah!
ReplyDeleteur welcome fp. dont know kc hw to get in touch with u n private msg, hehe.
ReplyDeletekilala ko ba ITO??? =P
ReplyDeletethat's not a good excuse on being inside a "gay" relationship. i still believe that there are other gays out there who likes to be like in a "hetero" like relationship. slips, cheats, flirts are given. just my opinion.
ReplyDeleteI'm a straight girl that's been in a happy, monogamous relationship for over two years, but my boyfriend and I are open to having a third person join us in bed. However, this person has to be someone we trust, though not necessarily a friend because that would be weird. Just someone who's disease-free and discreet.
ReplyDeleteis this couple medyo oldies na and usually seen in society pages? and if i'm correct, their store is not only in one mall.
ReplyDeleteConfirma bang gay sila??
ReplyDeletewhy not? another thing ticked off the 'ol bucket list ;)
ReplyDeletespice lang yan. nothing shocking :P
ReplyDeleteGirlash
No big deal at all. In gay clubs its quite normal. This is nothing...Next!
ReplyDeleteCan anyone tell me who's the design duo?
ReplyDeleteWhat's the name of their store?
ReplyDeleteito ba at yung uaap reporter?
ReplyDeletekung hot ang couple, why not? kung hmmm... thanks for the offer na lang! hehehehe
ReplyDeletein this age of HIV and Aids, it's better to be safe than sorry......if you love one another, loyalty and being monogamous should be second nature....
ReplyDeletei agree with you
DeleteBaka slow lang ako but
ReplyDelete1) Im not sure if letter writer is a girl or a guy. Male threesome ba ito or M-F-M?
2)How do people know its a gay club? I havent been in Manila in a long time, gay clubs na lang ba ang natira sa Malate?
3)Clue naman sa design duo na to!
And I agree with letter writer, committed kung committed I think. Pero I guess Im a hopeless romantic @:)
Does it say that they went to a gay club? Where?
ReplyDeleteAno ba ang point ng letter sender? I think he just want to spill their identities, hello there is no such thing as 100 percent monogamous gay, ask mo pa si boy abunda haha, nasa era na tayo ng ipad , so casual sex and lust is very common among gays who,98 percent are promiscuous, oh ayan nagbigay pa ako ng partida, me 2 percent na loyal
ReplyDelete98 percent promiscuous, no wonder HIV/ AIDS status in the country is Rising! Come On!
ReplyDeleteKaya ang taas ng HIV rate ng Pinas dahil sa mga veking hayop na ito. Magkalat ba naman. O sha magkalat kayo ng HIV pra D next Africa of HIV itong Pinas.
ReplyDeleteI heard tumataas dahil sa mga seaman na umuuwi sa wives nila after making patol sa different hookers all over the world. At saka dahil pinoy guys, insecure sa kanilang ungiftedness, ayaw magcondom
ReplyDeleteDesign duo? C and R? Always see them in Gbelt 5.
ReplyDeletesexual preference is not to blame. but not having safe sex. HIV rates are rising since detection rate and diagnosis are more efficient these days. Better the truth be out than we hide in darkness. BTW ang true chica sino ang designer duo?
ReplyDeletehahaha, tru... kaya madaming HIV sa pinas, kc itong mga beking makakating ito eh... kya karamihan ng beki may HIV. ingat. mag kapote sa mga beki... hahahha.
ReplyDeleteDesign duo? need more clues. The Malate gay bar described is definitely BED! Pasintabi lang po sa mga ibang comments kasi hasty generalization sya against gays. I mean I'm gay pero hindi ako promiscuous. I think AIDS/HIV affects genders in all spectrum and DOH should give relevant infomercials in educating the masses. If a person has AIDS/HIV because it's his/her fault that he easily forget that it's mind over sex!
ReplyDeleteNaku wala naman sa character ni C & R ang mag invite ng ka trio.
ReplyDeletekadiri naman itech an mga baklush, beki na nga, kalswaanan pa ang piang agagwa, kya hindi ni rerespeto ang mga beking itech, nag kakalat lng ng lagim, nag hiv at aids s pinas dumadami dahil sa mga makakating baklush..
ReplyDeleteI'm fascinated with how some people can be sooo stupid and close minded. Why blame AIDS/HIV to gay men... duh?! ndi lang gay people ang nagkakaroon nyan. and beside, ndi lang gay people and may fetishes/iba ibang trip when it comes to sex. wag nga kayong t*nga at b*bo! geeshh uminit ulo ko...
ReplyDeleteanyway, im curious to know this couple. more clues pls.
so true..
Deleteclue nm po..
ReplyDeletecno to fp.. nosebleed nA
ReplyDelete